To experience unconditional love, relinquish the need to change others. Focus your attention inward, on changing your attitude and beliefs. Once you are in control of your emotions and responses, you will have less need and desire to change others.
The goal is to love freely, without the need to save others from experiencing whatever they choose.
Go within and work on your ability to love others unconditionally. In the beginning, especially with difficult relationships, this may seem impossible. In these cases, work within yourself and find ways you can forgive yourself and others.
Sometimes you may have to “fake it ‘til you make it.” Your subconscious brain does not know the difference between reality and fantasy. Continually redirect your focus to more loving thoughts. Do not allow yourself to dwell on negativity. In this manner, your brain will re-pattern itself. Before long, you will not be constrained by the behaviors of others.
When you become emotionally balanced, the ability to unconditionally love others will manifest, even for those who have caused you the greatest harm. With practice, no matter if others hang you upon a cross, you will recognize that this realm is simply an illusion. You will remember that each person is an individualization of the Creator and that we all are One. This is the secret of the Masters.
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Very timely and eye opener for me.I am living this personality trait
Thank you
Great post!! I think ive finally made it over this hump! Its taken much work on my part but things have gotten alot better in this area. It’s not perfect yet, but day by day im making the choices that create more peace and love in my life! Thank you Theresa for all your help! You are an amazing being and I’m so happy to have crossed paths with you!
It is a lifelong journey… one step at a time. Enjoy each step!