CHOOSING A PARTNER
When it comes to choosing a partner, pay close attention to your intuition. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t right. The trick is to find out which of these feelings is due to fear from past experiences and which are warning signs that this is not a good choice for you.
The key to clear guidance is to get in direct communication with your Creator. Begin by setting time aside each day to go within and ask questions. The response may not be immediate or it may come right away. You may question whether the answer is from Creator or your mind. Intuition and synchronicities can help you distinguish between the two. Sometimes, it just takes faith.
The best way to gain clarity is to work through your fears and unresolved issues. Forgiveness of yourself and others, as well as gratitude for everything in your life is vital. Every emotion you feel is linked to an attitude, belief or fear. You adopted those and you have the power to release them through focused thought and intention. Step out of the box and have the courage to make choices based on what you desire to experience!
Watch out for “red flags.” Be sure to live in the moment, paying attention to your beau’s words and actions. Are they in alignment? Are yours in alignment?
What often happens is during the beginning phase of a relationship, each person spends more energy trying to please or be the type of person they think the other wants them to be. This sets you both up for failure. Be authentic right from the start.
If your beau shows signs of narcissism and is abusive in any way, pull back. Let them make their own life choices while you seek a partner who is more respectful. No one is behaviorally perfect, but don’t bind yourself to someone in hopes they will change. Focus more on how they are behaving here and now.
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” ~ 1 Corinthians 13:4-7