New Moon Celestial Gathering
December 1, 2024
Greetings Dear Ones,
We are happy and grateful for this time of communion with you. As you enter into the month of December, it is often a time of happy anticipation and yet sorrows from the past often arise, as well. There may be unmet expectations that came as a result, going back as far as childhood. It is time to let the sadness of those moments go. If any arise, take time to counter them with blessings that were also in place at the time.
For many, the anticipation of gatherings with friends and family also has the mixture of happiness, yet concerns for those known to be disrupters. Allow the happiness to flow and consider how you can be uplifting to others you meet.
If you anticipate having encounters with any disrupters, prepare yourself to meet them on “higher ground.” Rather than feeling battered by their words, visualize how you can respond with a compliment. If there are topics that are “taboo” or known to start battles, choose not to participate.
If you are hosting an event, you can make it known to all to leave those battles at the door… this could mean topics such as politics or opinions on other matters. If you are meeting them at their own home, or the place of another, then you can decide how to respond. Consider a graceful comment such as, “I value you and the right for you to have your opinion. However, this is a topic I am not interested in discussing right now.”
For some of you, there will be the regularly expected narcissistic disrupters. Smile, hug, be gracious and walk away when the darts come out. No words need to be spoken, for with a narcissistic, you will never win. Thus, disengage and keep your distance as much as you can. Visualizing what you will say and how you will respond beforehand can be of value.
Be wary of falling into traps of buying things or doing things out of obligation. Either bring joy into the obligation or refrain from doing so. Perhaps plan a surprise that may bring a smile to the notorious grump. Most unhappy people don’t feel loved or heard. Many have shut themselves off so completely that they won’t allow themselves to smile or express gratitude. Yet, inwardly, you may have touched them deeply.
For those who MUST tell you how to wear your hair, how to dress, what job you should be doing, where you should live, how to breathe… you know the type. Be prepared on how you wish to address them. Avoid conflicts by making a statement such as, “Thank you, I will consider that.” Say it in a way that they believe it. For in saying it, you are already considering it, even if that is as far as your consideration goes.
We love you beyond measure and hope that you can begin to let go of any past traumas that afflict you on any anniversary date, whether a global, national, community or personal level. Do all you can to make every day on the calendar one in which you allow more joy to enter. If there are traditions that bring you down, create a new tradition. Your happiness begins with you. Let that happiness spread out from you.
Be blessed always in all ways!
*Transcribed by Theresa Crabtree. Please share the message freely with others. Invite your friends to join us for the next Celestial Gathering. https://www.theresacrabtree.com/events/