Soul Connection 49 ~ Relationship Pillars

The foundation of any experience can be strengthened with the pillars of truth, strength, honesty and desire. Let us look at possibilities surrounding each of these pillars.
Let us use the example of being a child who is hit by a car while crossing the street to pet a cat. Your initial truth (belief code) may be, “That was painful; going into the street can be painful.” As time and events occur in your lifetime, you may get to the point where it is fearful for you to cross the street or you may become wiser and always look before you cross the street.
Perhaps your incident will cause you to have more inner strength and not only cause you to be more cautious when crossing streets, but in other areas of your life, as well. You could go to the opposite extreme and be fearful in other areas, too. You’ll do anything to avoid pain and the other emotions and events surrounding being hit by a car. This is the beginning of phobias.
Your honesty pillar could be affected in a variety of ways. You may not accept responsibility and blame everyone else for your incident. You may convince yourself that the driver should have been able to miss you, your mom should have protected you or the world is not a safe place. If you choose to believe that the world is not a safe place, then your future experiences will attach to that pillar and could grow to such a proportion that you become a recluse.
The fourth pillar, desire, can also be affected tremendously by this one basic event. You may have really wanted to get to the other side of the road to pet that kitty. Now that you have been injured by the car, your desire to cross the street has diminished. In your young mind, a possible thoughtform could be, “When I am curious, I get hurt.” If you are in a situation where your parents are over-protective and most of what you hear when you are curious is, “No, no, no!” then it is likely that your level of curiosity and desire will be greatly diminished.
There are a myriad of possible responses for each pillar. Every event causes an initial belief code. Reactions and belief codes triggered by future events will be added to the pillars. Through time, the pillars become stronger until you have an entire building with walls that are impenetrable.
The key is to look at the base of your pillars: truth, strength, honesty and desire. Each step you take towards speaking your truth, standing strong for what you believe in, being honest with yourself and others in all aspects of your life and the desire to move forward to experience your passions will lead you closer to living the life of your dreams.
Most will need to chip pieces off the pillars and do minor repairs while many may have to blast the pillars down and totally rebuild. Either way, as you strengthen your pillars, you will be rewarded with a life full of hope, promise and incredible joy.
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